About the Book
Book: Anything But Plain
Author: Suzanne Woods Fisher
Genre: Amish fiction
Release date: October 4, 2022
It’s not easy being the bishop’s daughter, especially for Lydie Stoltzfus. She’s not like other Amish girls, as much as she wishes she were. The only thing she does well is disappoint others. Leaving her family and church seems unbearable, but staying might be worse.
Knowing Lydie is “between” jobs, the local doctor asks her to fill in at the front desk for a few months. To Lydie, this is a boon. It gives her time to figure out how she’s going to say goodbye to her neighbor, Nathan Yoder–the main reason she needs to leave Stoney Ridge. Nathan claims he’s in love with her, but she knows she’s not good enough for him. If in doubt, Nathan’s father reminds her frequently.
As Dok spends time with Lydie, she recognizes symptoms of an uncommon disorder among the Amish. She offers treatment for Lydie. But will it be enough to make her stay? Or has help come too late?
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My Thoughts:
It has been a while since I have visited Stoney Ridge and I was pleasantly surprised when this story was about Lydie Stoltzfus, Bishop David's daughter. Lydie is a woman who is easily distracted, so much so that it causes humorous situations in her life and others. Unfortunately, nobody finds at the time the situations remotely funny. I did while reading her story and yet I felt for her too as she obviously had something else going on. It took her aunt, Dok, to everyone to realize that she had ADHD and showed her exercises and ways to deal with it. In the meantime, her family life is exploding too.
Bishop David is about to get a surprise he does not want nor appreciates. Actually, none of his family does either. His mother, Tillie, is going to stay with him and help him get his life, store, and community back on track. At least where she thinks they should be, and never mind that he has a wife who is his help mate. Tillie is an overbearing, overopinionated, and oftentimes rude woman. Scaring and making life uncomfortable for her children, grandchildren, and even the neighbors. She scares them all. David needs to figure out something.
While all of this family drama is going on in the Stoltzfus home, their neighbors, the Yoder's are having quite a time as well. Nathan Yoder is very smart, and he wants to bring their family farm back into a profitable healthy farm again. His two biggest opponents are his father and brother. Not only that, but he is in love with Lydie.
This book was enjoyable even with all the family drama going around, and many times I laughed out loud. I also liked reading Nathan's very intelligent work on why organic farming was best for the plants, the soil, and the good bugs. Very interesting farming techniques. Dok's tips on helping Lydie cope and live with her ADHD were encouraging and educational as well. An Amish story yes, but full of practical life tips.
I was provided a copy of this novel from the publisher. I was not required to post a positive review and all views and opinions are my own.
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Easily Distracted? 8 Strategies to Help Stay Focused
Anything but Plain is a story about a young Amish woman with undiagnosed ADHD. Lydie Stoltzfus feels like a square peg in a round hole. She just doesn’t fit in and, to make matters worse, she’s the bishop’s daughter. At this point, the only path forward she can see is to leave Stoney Ridge. Leave her church, her friends, her family, her neighbor Nathan Yoder. It’s better to leave, Lydie decides, than to keep disappointing everyone she cares about. I won’t say anymore so that I don’t spoil the story for you.
ADHD is not a common diagnosis among the Amish and many might assume it’s not a real thing. Of course, they’re mistaken. ADHD is a real thing. While I don’t have ADHD, I do have many friends and family members who have been diagnosed. It’s challenging! And something we should all take seriously. Here’s why:
Evidence is mounting that a growing dependence on digital devices could be giving all of us some ADHD-like symptoms. Have you wondered if distractibility is becoming a problem for you? Or has a spouse or child or friend remarked on how often you pick up your phone to check a text message or scroll Instagram? You might remain physically present but your mind has wandered away. For me, the answer is, regrettably, yes.
There’s a recurring phrase in Anything but Plain that comes from an old-fashioned farming term: Walking the beans. Literally, it means weeding by hand. Figuratively, it means paying attention to our priorities. To pull the weeds before they take root.
One of the takeaway lessons of this book is to “walk the beans” of technology’s role in my life. So…I’ve been working on a few strategies. When I practice, I see a difference. Life is calmer. More manageable.
So…I wanted to pass these tips along to you. (If you have little children, these might not work for you. Not when your little ones are awake, anyway.) Hopefully, you’ll find them to be useful, and maybe spark some strategies of your own.
- Make a plan. I start the day with an index card and write down the day’s priorities. And I check off tasks as I finish them!
- Go off-line. Create an environment that helps you stay focused. Turn your cell phone to silent. If working on the computer, close your email app. Put yourself in distraction-free mode until you’re accomplished what you need to do
- Finish one task before moving on to the next. Even little tasks.
- Distractibility is at its peak during transitions. Build in margin. For example, arrive a few minutes early instead of rushing in a few minutes late.
- When distractions are high, make tasks smaller and break down your large projects into smaller tasks to help you concentrate and give you a sense of accomplishment and progress.
- When I’m facing a big task, I’ll break it down into smaller, more manageable pieces.
- Set a deadline for a task. Beat the clock! Use a timer.
- Rewards! When I beat the clock, I’ll take a break from computer work and pop up to the garden, text a friend, walk the dog. Something that feels good.
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Giveaway
To celebrate her tour, Suzanne is giving away the grand prize of a $50 Amazon gift card and a copy of the book!!
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There is a lot happening at the Stoltzfus house in Stoney Ridge!
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